The liberating effects of losing control

February 18, 2009

Self-control is one of our most cherished values. We applaud those with the discipline to regulate their appetites and actions, and we try hard to instill this virtue in our children. We celebrate the power of the mind to make hard choices and keep us on course. But is it possible that willpower can sometimes be an obstacle rather than a means to happiness and harmony?

Tufts University psychologists Evan Apfelbaum and Samuel Sommers were intrigued by the notion that too much self-control may indeed have a downside - and that relinquishing some power might be paradoxically tonic, both for individuals and for society.

They explored the virtue of powerlessness in the arena of race relations. They figured that well-intentioned people are careful - sometimes hyper-careful - not to say the wrong thing about race in a mixed-race group. Furthermore, they thought that such effortful self-control might actually cause both unease and guarded behavior, which could in turn be misconstrued as racial prejudice.

To test this, they ran a group of white volunteers through a series of computer-based mental exercises that are so challenging that they temporarily deplete the cognitive reserves needed for discipline. Once they had the volunteers in this compromised state of mind, they put them (and others not so depleted) into a social situation with the potential for racial tension - they met with either a white or black interviewer and discussed racial diversity. Afterward, the volunteers rated the interaction for comfort, awkwardness, and enjoyment. In addition, independent judges - both black and white - analyzed the five-minute interactions, commenting on how cautious the volunteers were, how direct in their answers - and how racially prejudiced.

As reported in Psychological Science, a journal of the Association for Psychological Science, those who were mentally depleted - that is, those lacking discipline and self-control - found talking about race with a black interviewer much more enjoyable than did those with their self-control intact. That's presumably because they weren't working so hard at monitoring and curbing what they said. What's more, independent black observers found that the powerless volunteers were much more direct and authentic in conversation. And perhaps most striking, blacks saw the less inhibited whites as less prejudiced against blacks. In other words, relinquishing power over oneself appears to thwart over-thinking and "liberate" people for more authentic relationships.

More information: Wray Herbert discusses this study in his blog, "We're Only Human..." (www.psychologicalscience.org/onlyhuman/)

Source: Association for Psychological Science

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Szkeptik
not rated yet Feb 18, 2009
I have this very same thing with black people. I'm super careful not to say something that could be interpreted as racist and the whole interaction becomes awkward. So all I have to do is go through some IQ tests before talking to someone?
TrevorBGood
5 / 5 (1) Feb 23, 2009
I have this very same thing with black people. I'm super careful not to say something that could be interpreted as racist and the whole interaction becomes awkward. So all I have to do is go through some IQ tests before talking to someone?


No, all you need do is be less guarded and focus on the conversation at hand, like you would with anyone else.

I recently spoke to a few professional accountants, all of whom were black. What came out during the conversation was quite reveling. They told me among many other things, that when someone was extremely guarded around them, they could pick it up. If they picked up that someone was guarded around them and not others i.e. whites. They would wonder why this person was so very guarded - the easy conclusion to make was that they were racist and that they were trying to hide it.

I told them that some people are guarded with all strangers, but that does not necessarily make them racist.

I also told them that any human being will only see what they want to see. If they believe that all whites are racist, then that is all they will see.

In other words, if they believed that someone was a racist (belief without supporting facts) then they would look for some reason, however obscure, to prove themselves correct. The self-fulfilling prophecy; after all who needs facts if they have belief.

After this discussion, we discussed affirmative action, and they all unanimously agreed that it was the worst idea every. One guy said, "Because of AA, everyone assumes we are AA appointments, or that we are incompetent, or both, because we are black. It is not true - we have our degrees, we work hard - we are qualified and competent!"


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