Study suggests people dislike you more for humblebragging than for regular boasting

January 12, 2018 by Bob Yirka, Medical Xpress report
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A team of researchers from Harvard University and UNC-Chapel Hill has conducted a study regarding humblebragging—in which a person boasts about an achievement but tries to make it sound less boastful by minimizing it—and report what they learned. In their paper published in the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, the group describes their study and what they found.

Humblebragging is very common, the researchers note—people want to brag about their accomplishments, but do not want to come off as a braggart, so they try to cloak it with words that are meant to seem like they are still being humble. It is a form of false modesty. The problem with that approach, the researchers found, is that other people see right through it and they do not like it.

The study by the team involved nine experiments, all of which revolved around asking people to report how they felt when encountering humblebragging in one of three main areas: , and in the , where volunteers documented things they saw in diaries. In all, 646 people were surveyed regarding their feelings about humblebragging and 70 percent of them were able to recall an instance of humblebragging they had seen or heard recently.

The researchers also divided humblebragging into two main types: complaint and humility-based. The first occurs when somebody complains about something as a way of showing others that they have been asked to do something important, e.g. "I hate having to do these meet-and-greets with all these celebrities." The second is when someone attempts to brag using what is meant to be humility, e.g., "Whey do I always get asked to the dance by so many guys."

The researchers found that people tend to notice and remember the second kind most often. They also found that most of the respondents preferred pure boasting to humblebragging—because, most reported, it is at least more honest. They also found that people would rather have listened to someone flat-out complain about something than have to listen to them humblebragging. The experiments also showed that people who engage in humblebragging are less liked (and trusted) in general than other people, though they also noted that most people engage in it sometimes.

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More information: Sezer, Ovul, Francesca Gino, and Michael I. Norton. "Humblebragging: A Distinct – and Ineffective – Self-Presentation Strategy." Harvard Business School Working Paper, dash.harvard.edu/handle/1/14725901 , dash.harvard.edu/bitstream/han … /14725901/15-080.pdf

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Benni
1.6 / 5 (7) Jan 12, 2018
IN MY HUMBLE OPINION..........actually I don't have any, it ain't bragging if you can do it, I can solve Differential Equations & that is simply a statement of fact.
RNP
5 / 5 (5) Jan 12, 2018
@Benni
My God! How pathetic can you make yourself sound? I thought I had seen you at your most embarrassing, but you have exceeded yourself this time.

For future reference, you should note 3 things.

1) People with ability do not find it necessary to boast about things - they simply prove it.

2) Nearly everybody that you lambast with your ridiculous nonsense can solve differential equations.

3) I find it amusing that you see fit to capitalise Differential Equations as if they are something particularly important or spectacular. How is your tensor calculus? Would you like to explain how to perform covariant derivatives?
RobertKarlStonjek
4 / 5 (1) Jan 12, 2018
The nature of bragging and its reception is going to vary from country to country, culture to culture. Americans are seen as brash braggarts by many other cultures, particularly those that think more collectively than individualistically eg some Asian countries.

Even within the USA the culture in some states can be quite different to others, for instance comparing, say, New York city to Texas with respect to extroversion, for instance, or comparing socio-economic or educational groups such as highly educated intellectually biased individuals with low education emotionally biased individuals.

Stating facts can still be bragging if the information is volunteered stridently and out of context with a discussion verses responding only to a question for which an alternative answer would be a falsehood.
TrollBane
5 / 5 (1) Jan 13, 2018
If only I had a penny
For every one like Benni,
I could golf on the job and
Drive staff to a frenzy.
rockart
5 / 5 (2) Jan 13, 2018
Third type?
One accuses someone else of not being able to do something, implying that they can do it themselves without actually bragging about being able to do it.
RNP
not rated yet Jan 14, 2018
@rockart
LOL.

You are right, of course.

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